Today is our 2 year wedding anniversary. It really does seem like yesterday, and can remember all those feeling of excitement oh so well. But I also think of all the things we've done since then too, and think..."whoa, we've been busy!"
I am so grateful to be Mrs. Chang to my Mr. He is kind, funny,and very patient. He's not perfect by any means, but I really don't know how he puts up with me. I am emotional, chatty, and an over analyzer. But I do love with all my heart, and he sees that. When they say, 'love conquers all', I think it's true. Despite the mini frustrations, those few bad days, and the realness that comes with marriage, I wouldn't change it. I am committed to this man. I choose to love him every single day. Because love is a choice, and sometimes we get caught up in the feeling of 'being in love'. It's hard to not base love on a feeling only though, but I also think how much my feelings change through out the day, and I cannot be trusted. Don't get me wrong, the butterflies and excitement are important, but not the foundation of marriage. I read this book once saying, "the excitement of the touch that make up the tingles serve as the cherry on top of the sundae. But you cannot have a sundae with only the cherry." I love that.
Happy Anniversary to us! This ride is an on going learning experience, and I'm all in.